sayjuan2006 says:
Enter your answer here.When my oldest sister became pregnant she had to attend a school for girls who were pregnant. One of her best friends parents would not let her come over anymore, and that was hard on my sister her other best friend came to the baby shower and stayed her friend. That was almost 30yrs ago, now fast forward to today and I feel if we still kept teen age moms out the same school as the other kids they would know that hey this is really not the route. Young people really need to see the consequences of their actions, everything can be easily fixed is the thouth. This is the same idea with HIV/AIDS I think that is the main reason why so many people aree still getting the disease, they really do not see any consequence in contracting it. The message has gone from not cathcing it to you can live a long life on the drugs. The thing is no one showing what that life will entail with the numerous drugs they will need to maitain a "heatlhy" life. Magic looks good because Magic has money, he can get better health care for himself so I don't want to hear him say he takes the same drugs as anyone else. There are no consequences for the young ladies who get pregnant, so many young ladies and there friends get pregnant at the same time so they kids can be friends, you have to change this whole mentality to efffect a change. I am no saying you cannot do anything when you have a child, I am a firm beleiver that if you want to continue school after you have a child then strap that baby to your back and go, just know it will be harder and no there no parties and cute dresses because you have pampers to buy. I was 30 when I had my one and only child, I was workin in a great job and his father is in his life. No we are not married, but I can tell I wish we were and then I am glad we are not. But it does not mean that he is free of his obligations, no not at all. Men say to us let me be the man and stop trying to take on my responsibilities and the whole nine, well ok, be the man. Step up to you responsibilites, why should I have to take you to court to do something you should automatically be doing. Why can't you just come to the house and just do what you have to do. And for all of you men who say you do not want to date women who have more than one or two kids, you need to go to the third man and ask him why he left her. She did not make that child by herself and for you to put yourself above her just saved her from being with the next guy to leave her. No one sets out to have kids by themselves, no woman sets out to have more than one kids by themselves so men get off of your high horses and "man up". When it was slavey time, no one knew for the most part if it was they kids or masters kids but you know what that man manned up and took care of his responsibility. My own father was not my biological father. Nor were my sisters his, here you have a true definition of a man. This man loved my mother so much that even after they got divorced whenever she needed him he would drop what he was doing and take a bus to help her. Why? because he was a man. He told my sisters father he as needed, that he had us, and the man that left my mom when she pregnant with me for a pack of cigarettes was not an issue. I would never had known this man was not father had the bio came back into picture and the thing is, he could have stayed gone. So yeah, men get over yourselves and man up and take care of you responsibilites. Women, you need to do the same thing, this whole thing of putting out business in the court system needs to stop, you are only hurting yourself in the long run. See until they actually track him down you still have to take care of the child and if they never track him down then what. Stop putting your lives into a system that is only damaging you and image in more ways than you could ever know.........
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