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Why is it that being overweight has so much stigma attached to it while kids practicing less healthy habits don't have to deal with being taunted over them?
Don't misinterpret what I'm saying as pooh-poohing the notion that people are probably in a more healthy state when they aren't too far from their ideal weight.

However, don't you think that we've gone too far when it comes to putting such a stigma on being overweight?

Let's face the fact that overweight kids--even those whose excess pounds are caused by some kind of medical condition--put up with more of their share of taunting/bullying these days concerning their weight. Even worse is how precious little teachers seem to want to do to stop this.

One teacher (so called) who should, imo, have his teaching license revoked once actually taped a sign to the backside of a slightly chubby middle-school girl reading:

"Kick me! I'm fat!"

This young lady was on a talk show sobbing her heart out as she told her story to the audience.

Anyway, there's this big campaign to stamp out "obesity" among our children and teens and make it sound as if being overweight is the worst thing that you can be.

There are even some school-sponsored programs these days that seem to think nothing of employing dangerous decibels to teach something to students, and nobody seems to be in a hurry to turn the volume down, even though excess noise has been proven to not only cause hearing loss but, also, other health problems.

When it comes to sex education programs, the option of abstaining from sex is something that educators actually hesitate to include in the curriculum for fear of "imposing their views" on the students. This is true in spite of the fact that we're dealing with a segment of society who, while they aren't young children, still aren't full-fledged adults yet and are not very likely to be emotionally equipped to take part in a sexual relationship.

So we just keep the "politically correct" mindset that most teens are already sexually-active, so teaching them to abstain is rather "quaint," "outdated," and "unrealistic."

Even in the case of kids who smoke--where we actually DO try to discourage it--there still isn't a stigma on it like there is on being overweight.

Isn't it time that we admit that the "stigma" going along with being overweight has more to do with Hollywood than health?

Asked by AJpenlady 10 months, 1 week ago
Community: Be Healthy
Topics: obesity, fat, image, sex, noise, decibels, cigarettes, smoking, smoke

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sayjuan2006 says:
Enter your answer here.There is a stigma for everything, the "young lady who is having sex is being called whore by the fat person because atleast being fat does not take away your virtue". Eveything is wrong with so much, the thing is when a child is overweight we are looking at life long issues. We are looking at an epidemic of kids who cannot walk up a flight of stairs, kids who cannot run the 50yrd dash without stopping. I am not condoning the mistreatment of the kids who are overweight, the thing is this being overweight is something that can be corrected a lot faster and a lot easier than the other problems that you have stated. Have you ever once considered that maybe your child will not be employable because the employer is looking at whether or not the person is an asset or a liability. How many call outs will happen because of an asthma attack. How much will it cost in disability insureance because now they are to large to even come to work. It goes beyond just taunting at school, it is a life long issue if it is not addressed. The thing is overweight kids need to feel a consequence to there actions. I watched MTV Fat Camp over the summer and you know what, the kids did what they do at home. They ate what they wanted and they made excuses as to why they could not exercise. They were not made to do anything which was just a waste of there parents money. They should have had some serious goals set and if they were not reached then they had to suffer the repurcussions of not reaching that goal. No one wants to upset their kid anymore so we have kids that cry and whine about walking to the bus stop. They cry and whine about walking to the dumpster to throw out the trash. Show some consequence, a girl and a guy has sex, a baby comes along. You eat too much and never exercise you shorten your life and you do not like yourself and on and on and on. It is all about being healthy period. I suffered from being too skinny, I was called Olive Oyl, I had no boobs so you can guess at what was said to me. It does not matter what stigma is pressed about in the schools and society because no matter what you do if you continue along that road you can only end up in a worse situation than the one you are alread in.....

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